Incest

Women insecurities are always there. in east, west, north and south everywhere. They have to face many dilemmas throughout the life on every stage of life there is a worse challenge awaiting for. The one and the most graven sin , these days in most of the countries is incest (Zina or zina bil jabr with mehram-blood relationship ). Especially in Asian countries like Pakistan and India. Usually adolescent or a child (girl ) is the victim of this satanic act by some elder member of family.













Unfortunately since past two years the rate of incest is increasing rapidly but statistically it is not shown because these cases are rarely reported due to the threats imposed on victim. If somehow she approaches reliable person for disclosure, it consequently results nothing because there  come prestige problem of family which is quite far more important then the prestige of a girl. In some cases because of incest she has to face allegations of abuse. If the case is taken to the court I feel myself drowned when I see no justice in Courts. Victim in many cases commits suicide or suffers Post TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDERS AND RAPE TRUMA SYNDROME throughout their life. Recently a case came forthwith the issue of being sexually abuse by a father. Girl's mother committed suicide because of the issue. I ask what these courts for harassment and RAPE and Child protection buero are doing if not providing justice??? Many NGOs are trying to do something in this regard but the result is not satisfectory. just because of the fear found in victim that they inherit from elder women of family.



Incest was not as swear in the past as it is nowadays. But some germs of it were always present in society. The penalty of Zina should be  capital punishment in the state.Atleast the person who commit this crime should be punished stricktly so that it would be lesson for all others to think for a while before committing such sins. Women have always exploited in the name of WEAK gender. The abuser May get freedom in the world but on the day of resurrection in front of Allah , will be rewarded. At the end it is a request to parents and to be parents. Kindly be a good protector of this innocent creature. Keep eye on her. Be her friend and teach her to protect herself. If she discloses a matter, sought it out give her support and strength.Provide them such environment so that they can easily disclose if such harassment is happening to them.

Allah definitely loves the  one who loves his/her daughter!