Academic Freedom

Academic freedom refers to the freedom of choosing subjects, freedom of getting education of your own choice and freedom of profession you want to join.

In this century where we are facing the problem of poor understanding between parents and their children, there is lack of communication between them exists too, and this led their future towards the darkness.

Some parents in our society are too conscious about their children’s education even this extra consciousness is not necessary; they should give freedom to their children of choosing the subjects of their own interest, they enforce them to choose medical or engineering while their children are interested in Arts or some kind of computer subjects and they do not bother the choice of their children, in other side some parents are too careless about the education of their 

children and they do not bother what they are studying and what they want in their future regarding their profession, this is not freedom in fact , this is carelessness.

Parents should concern about their children’s academics, their choices, their wishes and their field they want to join in the future. They should give freedom of choice in academics to their children but not let them free to do whatever they want, they must keep an eye on them so that they abide by the choice they made. Parents should help their children in making their choice right and follow their dream of profession towards reality.

Academic freedom from the parents give their children confidence,a state of trust develop between them, this led them towards strong bonding.And their relationship also gets strong. Parents should understand this fact that academic freedom is the right of their children and they should never snatch this freedom from their children.It can leave negative impact on them in present but also in future.Parents who are concerned as well as understanding about the psyche of their children and give them freedom of choice in their academics gets splendid results in the end, in a form of successful professionals and proud members of the society. 

Incest

Women insecurities are always there. in east, west, north and south everywhere. They have to face many dilemmas throughout the life on every stage of life there is a worse challenge awaiting for. The one and the most graven sin , these days in most of the countries is incest (Zina or zina bil jabr with mehram-blood relationship ). Especially in Asian countries like Pakistan and India. Usually adolescent or a child (girl ) is the victim of this satanic act by some elder member of family.













Unfortunately since past two years the rate of incest is increasing rapidly but statistically it is not shown because these cases are rarely reported due to the threats imposed on victim. If somehow she approaches reliable person for disclosure, it consequently results nothing because there  come prestige problem of family which is quite far more important then the prestige of a girl. In some cases because of incest she has to face allegations of abuse. If the case is taken to the court I feel myself drowned when I see no justice in Courts. Victim in many cases commits suicide or suffers Post TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDERS AND RAPE TRUMA SYNDROME throughout their life. Recently a case came forthwith the issue of being sexually abuse by a father. Girl's mother committed suicide because of the issue. I ask what these courts for harassment and RAPE and Child protection buero are doing if not providing justice??? Many NGOs are trying to do something in this regard but the result is not satisfectory. just because of the fear found in victim that they inherit from elder women of family.



Incest was not as swear in the past as it is nowadays. But some germs of it were always present in society. The penalty of Zina should be  capital punishment in the state.Atleast the person who commit this crime should be punished stricktly so that it would be lesson for all others to think for a while before committing such sins. Women have always exploited in the name of WEAK gender. The abuser May get freedom in the world but on the day of resurrection in front of Allah , will be rewarded. At the end it is a request to parents and to be parents. Kindly be a good protector of this innocent creature. Keep eye on her. Be her friend and teach her to protect herself. If she discloses a matter, sought it out give her support and strength.Provide them such environment so that they can easily disclose if such harassment is happening to them.

Allah definitely loves the  one who loves his/her daughter!

Relations

There are three types of relations we have in this

 1. Relation by Birth( Parents Siblings)

 2. Relations we made by ourselves ( friends )

3. Relations God made for us ( By Marriage )

We are attached emotionally and spiritually with all these relations. but with the passage of time we got to know that who are our real well wishers, infact it can easily be understood we if we start thinking and writing about one relation at a time.

Relations by Birth: This is a relation between our parents and our siblings, we can call it an intimate relation sometimes our siblings get rude with us but parents are two kind personalities of world who never feel hatred for us never scold us from their heart, if they punish, that would just for our right, parents are the most modest creature of God on the earth that they never deceive us never leave us when nobody cares about us our parents do.

Relation we made by ourselves: we are social animals and cannot live alone in this society so we need friends to share our emotional feelings and to pass our time the

would be memorable for the future, but there are only few people who are fortunate about this matter and have trust worthy and sincere friends, this all depends on the luck of the person that some found very good friends in their lives that lasts forever and some have bitter experiences of friendship in their lives. Although this relation is not intimate and it has certain limitations too after that it ends or become limited to some extent.

Relation God made for us: After a specific age spent with our family and friend there comes a time where we get marry and have a relation of two bodies and one soul, it is a beautiful relationship no doubt if somebody find a great companion life becomes heaven on earth but in a same time if somebody find a bad partner life become hell. It all depends on luck too or its all in the Hands of God Almighty, what we have is because of certain reasons, some are well known reasons and some are hidden from our eyes.

Life Miseries

Sometimes its hard to accept the miseries of life until we see with our own eyes, or to experience them. There are certain miseries which give us lesson for lifetime, while some ruin us and give no way to escape from them. life miseries can be a big quarrel with our friends, a failure in the way of studies, and some sort of sadness comes because some one leave us on the wrong time, all this become the miseries of our lives and don't find way to get escape from them.

People fight with their miseries, some take a step forward alone and some gather a group to fight with their miseries. In both of the cases learning process still remains with them. problems are the part of life and if we have smooth life then we forget the blessings and we don't know the real meaning of happiness, in other words the happiness came after the misery bring uncountable happiness on the face of the person.

People try to overcome their problems with different techniques, some share their feelings with others, some try to eat more than the routine, some listen to the music, some play games, its all depends upon the psychology of human what suits best to him he done that.

Miseries can be of two form some are sudden and we don't understand how they came to us, and some are because of the matters we leave uncompleted. But all that realize us our presence in the world, socially we are occupied by different people and different matters are included in our daily life so in results consequences are also different and we have to face them.

we can challenge these miseries through our will power and we may conform because of it, but what matters is to face it lively and get rid of it, if we see our surroundings, we get to know that people are often most difficult to understand and in fact they are miserable in their own selves, what we have to do in this situation is to get involve and solve the problem.

in nutshell, we can say that life are full of miseries but what our character in this situation matters a lot to change these miseries into ever healthy learning experiences of life.

Unique Problems of Youth

Youth refers to the age group of teen and people of at least 25 years old. There are certain problems exists in the life of teen agers on which no body concentrates, e.g Parent's less concerned, Friends deception, Teacher's scolding behavior etc. but what torn them is the deception of friends and the least concentration of parents towards them.

Sometimes youth faces these problems in extremely pessimistic way which leads them towards the dark side of life, they tried to commit suicide and sometimes they try to leave whole that environment of their surroundings and leave the place they live. Nobody understand the problems of youth because they consider them as children and does not take them seriously.

Now a days the trend has been prevailing in our society that youth wants freedom of everything. they want nothing from people but freedom, freedom of expression, freedom to live, freedom of doing anything without distortion. Although it is not possible because some of the parents are conscious about the freedom of doing anything by their children. But when these children wants attention from their parents , wants time from them they do not have for them, which puts negative impact on them.

There must be a physical relationship between parents and their children, a sort of hug, a kiss on the cheeks and a sound sleep on a lap , will help to make the relationship far better and strong, and this might decrease the problems  youth face lonely, may be this kind of relationship allow them to share all of the problems with parents and they tried to sort out them.



Youth face different problems when they start growing towards their growing age of maturity.they feel shy to share their problems with their parents, that is why there must be bonding like a cement between youth and their parents so they feel free to share their all problems with their parents and in this way no problem could stand in front of them.

Ethnic Hatred

Ethnic hatred, inter-ethnic hatred, racial hatred, or ethnic tension refers to feelings and acts of prejudice and hostility towards an ethnic group in various degrees.

There are multiple origins for ethnic hatred and the resulting ethnic conflicts. In some societies it is rooted in tribalism, while in others it originates from a history of non-peaceful co-existence and the resulting actual disputed issues.

Often ethnic conflict is enhanced by nationalism and feeling of national superiority. For which reason inter-ethnic hatred borders with racism, and often the two terms are conflated.

On the opposite side, ethnic conflict may stem from the feeling of real or perceived discrimination by another ethnic group.

Ethnic hatred has often been exploited and even fueled by some political leaders to serve their agenda of seeking to consolidate the nation or gain electorate by calling for a united struggle against a common enemy (real or imaginary).

ethnic hatred may prevail in small aged group also because children do not like their mates who take more grade then them, in this way the ethnic hatred started and if the parents or teachers wont stop then this leads to their generations. 

people who have opposite opinions then those of the majority becomes highlighted and faced ethnic hate by the majority group, even if they are right in their opinions. nobody tries to overcome this hatred by accepting his/her mistake, because ego does not let them do this.

Ethnic hatred could be because of the color of the skin or the language difference, though these are not the reasons on which somebody start hating but according to the psychology people who have inferiority complex or have any other cognitive disorder do all these actions just to tease other people.

Ethnic hatred prevails in larger groups also and sometimes disasters came out just because of the disturbance of differences. Ethnic hatred led the countries and the civilians of the countries hate each other because nobody like to bear the against point of views for their country. many of the wars were just because of ethnic hatred and now after decades of this social issue there is a need to bring this issue towards the eye of a common man so that he may understand it and try to sort out this. on the Government level there should take step for removing this evil from our society.

War and Media Propaganda

Propaganda is a form of communication aimed towards influencing the attitude of a population toward some cause or position and Media refers to any channel through which we can communicate to the massive audiences.

"We must remember that in time of war what is said on the enemy’s side of the front is always propaganda, and what is said on our side of the front is truth and righteousness, the cause of humanity and a crusade for peace".

Now a days Media is doing propaganda in order to gain attention of the people towards the things that are hidden from the eyes of common people.There are many types of propaganda that are used by the media, in order to understand the difference between persuasion and propaganda, there must be a clear understanding of their meanings.

Everyday there is a new news about war that is burning in our cities and towns, and media present it through its own way we can call it through its propaganda, what people thinks , what people want to see and what people do all depends upon what media want us to see, do and think. Media propagate different issues and we lost our own skills of thinking and imagining. We believe on what mainly media wants us to believe, in this way media succeeded in doing propaganda.

The interesting factor of propaganda is that people don't know about their influence towards it and they do not understand that they are feeding on the media's strategy. A kind of war begin between the people who are influenced by propaganda and people who are not. There are hundreds of shows and news channels on airing on Television and Radio. Certain people don't like the shows but because of the hype created by media and its strong propaganda we do not raise voice against it. Thus, War begins with our own selves and it cause irrational factor in our lives.


Media Propaganda leads us towards the way we are not supposed to go, our own understanding becomes zero, in short we become the puppets in the hands of media. In order to, avoid from becoming the victim of media propaganda we must need to be strong and there must be our own vision towards any issue and we must have information and our own opinion for any problem. In this way nobody can influence us towards its propaganda and the war we are facing with our own selves will not begin.